1) someone who just want textbook, model answer
for everything that happens, everything you do. you just freeze up and panic at the slightest sign of trouble. you refuse to acknowledge that life is not a simple textbook and things that happen are not going to just have model answer for you to follow.
you DONT use the brain that was bestowed on you to solve the problem. instead you just keep harping on how things and people should have SOP's. you also dont want to take responsibility for your own actions and more often than not, you find it easy to just blame others.
2) someone who recognizes life as full of challenges and ups and downs
you are ready to take on anything that comes in your way. well, maybe not everything, but you take it in your stride.
you may not like challenges and problems, but you do your best and USE YOUR BRAIN to try to resolve them.
you also try to take personal responsibility of your own actions. you strive to recognize your weaknesses and improve.